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i am mad pissed now. and this post is going to be all words + VULGAR.

gonna talk about 2 things that i'm pissed about NOW.

1) PEOPLE WHO ORGANIZE EVENTS/PARTIES/GATHERINGS ETC.

normally the people who organize things are the ones that are the most mad and pek chek people,
and i know how it feels cos i've organized some things and been a leader before since young.
BUT NOW?! gosh it's the fucking opposite. i'm having a gathering on the 23rd and i dont wish to say it now and no names shall be said here.

i'm posting this not only for that particular organizer but to all those people out there.

-when you want to start something, please number make sure that you have everyones contact and that each and everyone of them know what is going on.

- even a dinner place, dont just give the mrt or place name. give the freaking restaurant/eating place name! even though we're meeting and going there together, at least say right? unless it's a surprise but people need to know where they're going right?
what if someone ask where you're going and you say you dont know. how stupid can we sound? gosh.

-and please dont keep changing the plans cos not only you but the rest have their own schedules too, some may book the whole day just for this it's fine, but some people have other things on the same day! plus, people will get confused because you keep fucking changing the stupid plan.
just stick to one and make sure everyone agrees with it.

-when you want to change sth or inform sth, please tell EVERYONE. and i mean EVERYONE. not like 1 or 2 to ask them about the change then not telling the rest.

-RESPONSIBILITY. DON'T YOU HAVE IT?! or common sense?! at least i know this even though i alr have low common sense..

-when someone asks you sth, PLEASE GET BACK TO IT ASAP. dont drag or anything. try to make sure everyone is good and happy with the plans and that they know what they're doing.
people WILL get unhappy and will spoil the gathering.

- if someone doesnt reply you, please call them or do anything to make sure they are okay with the plan. it is tough but if you are the one in charge, please fucking put in the fucking effort despite all the tiredness alright? RESPONSIBILITY PLEASE.



2) PEOPLE WHO ARE NOT THE ORGANIZER.

dont think being the one not in charge means you can do anything you like. everyone is important to make something work. not only one can do everything. SO PLEASE!

- when the organizer texts you, PLEASE REPLY ASAP. if you need to think twice or need to plan first, AT LEAST INFORM THEM! and dont drag things, faster try to confirm if you can or not. but dont be in a hurry that you last minute cannot make it. IT SPOILS EVERYTHING.

- if you suddenly cannot make it, PLEASE TELL EVERYONE ASAP. INCLUDING THE ORGANIZER. this is to show the sincerity that you couldnt make it! BASIC MANNERS CAN?!


okay that's all. I AM STILL MAD.